Neelam, the wife of an architect of Lajpat Nagar suffered from blood cancer. She reached Gurgaon on Bada Veervaar and prayed to Guruji for blessings and recovery from the disease. Guruji commanded her to offer prasad of phullian at Sthan.
Guruji gave her Laung & Elaichi and Jal. After a few days she came again for blessings. Guruji was in a different mood on that day. After blessing her, Guruji picked some Meethi Phullian from Sthan and gave her with instructions to eat one piece every day.
After a few days she got herself checked up. The doctor was surprised to announce that she was no more a patient of blood cancer. She and her whole family jumped with joy. She was a normal woman without any sign of the said disease. Now, Guruji gave her a special command with instructions, not to bear the second child for one year. And the life went on normal and beautifully.
Her husband was a very sweet person and became a good devotee and paid frequent visits to Guruji along with her. Because of the miraculous recovery from such a disease, she had become familiar to me as well as to some other Shishyas like R. P. Sharma, A. P. Choudhary of East Patel Nagar.
On one Bada Veervar, as she offered phullian at Sthan, she came to me with tears in eyes. She referred to her husband and said, “Guruji, yeh mujhe pyar nahin karte aur mujhe ignore karte hein. Mujhe aisi zindagi nahin chahiye, isliye mein maut mangti hoon.” (Guruji, he doesn’t love me and ignores me. I don’t wish to live like that therefore I demand death).
Hearing this, I just trembled and scolded her saying that this was the day when Guruji never says ‘No’ to any demand. I further commanded her to say sorry and take back the words of death, which she just uttered.
A few months passed like this. Once she visited Gurgaon and as she did Pranaam, Guruji became serious. A prominent Shishya, A. P. Chaudhary of Patel Nagar noticed the mood of Guruji and simply asked for its reason. Guruji said, “Maine isse bachha paida karne se manah kiya thaa, per yeh to garbhwati hai !” (I had instructed her especially not to bear a child for one year but she is carrying)
Guruji further said, “Ab mein budde baba ko kaise manaoon? “Yeh unhi ka aadesh thaa, ki ek saal ke liye bachha na ho, per iske pet mein to bachha hai.” (Now what should I do, how to convince Lord Shiva. It was the God’s particular condition that she sould not conceive for one year).
Chaudhari asked, “Guruji ab kya hoga?“ (What will happen now? ) Guruji said, “Ab mushkil lag raha hai beta. Budde baba ko manana padega.” (It appears difficult now. May have to pray hard now to convince the Lord).
Disagreement with Guruji, is like going out in the snow fall without clothes. So Chaudhari was worried. So, what was expected, took place and she again fell ill not to survive.
As said in Punjabi about the relationship with Guru is,
“Dhar ja, te mar ja”
(Agree with the Guru blindly with no condition.)